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Monday, September 5, 2011

I learned it the hard way: The story behind my snatched phone.

Objective: To inform people of one of the on-going strategies of theft on the streets.

Place of Crime: Inside a bus (Igan). 
                        Route: Southmall/Casimiro/Moonwalk

Time of Incident: 8:40-9:30 PM

Where the bus is when it happened: Roxas Blvd. cor. MIA road.

Brief Story: 
It was last Saturday night. I just left church (service ends at 8pm) and as usual, my boyfriend accompanied me at the bus stop. I was supposed to ride an Erjohn or San Agustin, but Ian forbid me to go to Cavite (since it's getting late) so I decided to stay at my auntie's condo (where I stay when in Manila), which is just near Coastal Mall. 

So I alighted an Igan bus, a bus like this:
Not the actual bus. Just a sample.
Iam not saying that Igan buses are accomplices, it just so happened that
it is where it happened.

Minutes before the unfortunate circumstance: 
I know that texting inside public utility vehicles, especially in a jeep is a no-no. However, while inside a fx or bus, I feel comfortable enough to text/use my phone. I texted some people that time and must admit that the cell was really exposed to people sitting in proximity to me that time. The one sitting beside me look like a college student, and like me, he was also texting.

I was using a medium-sized Adidas backpack that time, filled with personal belongings like clothes, camera, water jug, etc. since we had our choir's Sportsfest early that day. I even had a badminton racket with me. When I'm about to descend, I carelessly put my phone (an old model of Ericsson Walkman series) in the front pocket of the backpack. I used to just hold it but since I'm holding a racket that time, I decided to put it in the bag. I make sure that all of the zippers are closed. The backpack was heavy and I'm still in the bus, so I carried the bag in the proper way backpacks should be carried, with the front pocket at my far back. 

The Modus operandi:
And so I shouted "Sa tabi lang po, Para!/ Please stop, I'm going to descend now" I left my seat and headed towards the bus door. When I was about to go to the steps, a man, who is seated behind the bus driver suddenly blocked my way. He remained in his seat but his upper body and left leg is on my way, 'cos he seemed to be looking for something at the front of the bus (I don't know what, probably none, since he was just acting, I realized hours later). I felt that there was a slight pressure on my back (the feeling that you get when you know there's someone on your back, close enough to touch you) but having feelings like that is just normal when you are standing in the bus, especially when there are other people who wants to go out also) so I just ignored.

It took me three times to say "Excuse me", I uttered the last one with annoyance due to the oddness of the situation; I kept on telling him to let me pass but it's like he's not paying attention or hearing anything at all (It was intentional, so that there'll be more time for his accomplice to get my things, I realized too late). Finally, when he let me pass, I immediately went out, walked some steps and ran to the other side of the highway, where the condo is. It's less than a minute after I went out the bus. I already reached the other side, and it's in the condo lobby when I saw that my bag is already open.:(

Their Loot:
-cell phone
-unused black sock (left the other piece)
-grocery list

I still thank God because:
-they were not able to get my silver bracelet which is the first Christmas gift I ever received from Ian (it is also where the phone is).
-they were not able to open the larger compartment of the bag ( the camera is there, with my wallet and other valuables)..or maybe they are just really targeting the phone. hay. it's not even touchscreen!
-none of my things dropped from my bag though the pocket was open and I ran in the highway.
-despite of it, I was safe.   

Points that I learned:
-Don't be too comfortable even in places that you think is safe enough. It is still outside your house so stay alert.
-It is always wise to be vigilant. 'Di bale ng praning kaysa nananakawan ka ng gamit/It is better to be paranoid than to be stolen from.;p
-Don't compromise on safety measures when commuting.
      *I've always known that when you're using a backpack and there are valuable items inside, you should wear it on the opposite manner, with the bag at your front. I didn't do it since my bag was heavy..I should have done something like this instead: 


Just support your bag if it's heavy but don't wear it on your back.
Better yet, divide your things and put the valuables
in a smaller bag so that you can  put it within your
site and secure it.

-Not all people will help. Minutes after what happened I asked myself: "Wala man lang 'ba nakakita?/Doesn't anyone saw it?" The answer will be not known to me anymore but if ever there was, he/she definitely didn't help. So if you are commuting alone, don't rely at anybody but yourself to protect you. 



Other areas I know where theft is rampant:

via Jeepney
    Route: Divisoria-Buendia, about 4 PM
    -I came from Divi and was riding the jeep when there occurred a traffic at Manila City hall area and a man inside the jeep suddenly snatched an old woman's seemingly gold necklace (sitting inside also) and ran off the vehicle. It was fortunate that the woman's neck didn't hurt that much.

    Route: San Andres Bukid, about 8 PM
    -I rode the jeep together with Ian and Queenie, my cousin who is still young that time. Several middle-aged men also rode the jeep with us, about 5 of them. Based on what I remember, two of them seated beside Ian, another beside me and Queenie is sandwiched between the two of us. The remaining men seated opposite to us. We were talking and playing with my cousin and minutes later, all of the men suddenly descended and when Ian reached for his pocket, his phone was not there anymore.

    Route: Buendia from Recto, about 3 PM
   -My sister bought something at Recto and she was with another student she didn't know inside the jeep, about to go home when two men with ice peaks alighted and declared a hold-up. The criminals asked for their phones, my sister immediately gave hers but the other said he has none. The man stabbed him at his side with the ice peak before they ran off. There was blood spill and an ambulance came to rescue. My sis was a bit traumatized due to horrible experience.

    Route: MCU, about 12 AM
   -This was a very unfortunate theft incident that happened with Ian's brother just a week ago. To make the long story short, There were just two of them and the jeepney driver inside when a group of men also rode the jeep and declared a hold-up minutes later after the jeep changed its route. The criminals had something on their backs, something pointed (not sure if gun) and they took all of their belongings, their whole bags. They even forced them to withdraw all the money in their ATM account. Talk about being demanding.:(  



I hate to say this but it's better to be realistic than to deny it. 
When in the Philippines, and commuting,
Be extra careful.:)

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Repost: H&M Leather Braided Bands Giveaway

I love freebies! Well, who doesn't?;p I just saw this great giveaway awhile ago and I thought that sharing this one would be nice.:)



From the Not Your Ordinary Beauty Queen Blog:

"This giveaway will have three (3) winners, since I missed out on my 200 Followers Giveaway, which means everyone gets more chances of winning! Each winner will receive three (3) suede leather bands of different colors from H&M..."



For more info, check out this site:
http://notyourordinarybeautyqueen.blogspot.com/2011/09/h-leather-bands-giveaway.html

Good luck!^.^

Thursday, August 25, 2011

run with a purpose.

Why join a marathon/running event?

Runners have different answers, most may say that they want to have a healthy lifestyle, be fit or just enjoy a sport. Others, on the other hand, find the meaning of running at a different level: helping others. Some people may not know it but a lot of running events have causes; more than hyping your sympathetic noradrenergic system, it nourishes your heart.

For me, running is equal to making a difference in another person's life. I don't run for the sake of bib, timing chip, singlet, medal or even personal record. Whenever I decide to join an event, the first thing that I ask and look for is: What is it for?

Cause: running shoes for public school students.

I run for a cause...and will always will. I may not be an heiress or born in a prominent family that have the luxury of being a full-time philanthropist but, (for now) I'm contented with the realization that I'm extending my hand (or legs, rather) at it's farthest reach by taking each stride with a purpose.


I've been busy for the past three weeks due to the wave of hardcore exams which ended just hours ago, and I missed a lot of good running events.:(  As I was browsing potential events that I may run into to get back on track, I came across this: 



My heart sank. I missed helping this poor soul. Even if I registered at this event, it was too late for her. Too late for one soul but not for hundreds and thousands of others.

No, it is still not too late. Aside from Sofia Ysabel, a lot more living bodies are waiting to be helped. I searched more. The following are the upcoming events that I believe runners should be interested to participate with. God willing, I will be running majority of these events. 

See you.:)


**These are the interesting ones I saw for the months of Sept-Oct. You may want to check these sites for more details or events: http://www.pinoyfitness.com/ and http://www.takbo.ph/index.php?option=com_eventlist&Itemid=32



For the Neck and Throat Cancer Charity Patients:




To raise awareness of the "bingot" condition and cleft care:
http://www.milesforsmiles.pepsquadevents.com/



For the Cancer Warriors Foundation:
http://www.c-warriors.org/





For Pediatirics Charity patients: 
http://run4change.com/2011/08/fam-on-the-run-september-25-2011-mckinley-hill/





For PGH Breast Care Center and other selected hospitals: 
http://www.avonkgbcphilippines.com/




For Public Elementary Schools in Manila, Cebu and Davao.
http://www.stpeter.com.ph/site_content.php?sid=3



This one will be on November pa but the organizers already started its promotion so I included it. I think Ill be running this one, 90% sure. Haha.^.^


Tuesday, August 9, 2011

will forever be missed.


I promise myself that this will be my last entry (muna) about them. For awhile, my blog has been filled with my thoughts on our babies/dogs, mostly sad ones, and I'm sure Pretty won't like that, she always wants me to be happy [I almost see her wagging tail while typing that.] So 'til, babies.
We love you both.
and Love is eternal.

Monday, August 8, 2011

On a sunny afternoon, the clouds were gray.

This picture was taken minutes before I left bebe
at Ian's house. It was a Sunday, April 10th.
That is what I felt...for today, two of the loveliest dogs I've loved died.

Eros, Ian's baby and Misty, my supposed to be future baby. :(

Eros is a half Shitzu, half Maltese cutie that I gave Ian, my beloved almost four months ago as a graduation gift. I personally named him Eros, for three reasons:

1. It is the Greek word for "Love". And though I   absolutely don't believe in mythologies, I like the story of "Eros and Psyche" (Love and Soul).
2. Due to the heart-shaped colored hair on his forehead (which he even eventually loses after two months). 
3. I love Ian and giving him a dog which name depicts love is just fitting.

Eros (I also call him bebe) just turned three months then. Though I was a bit sad of letting him go, I was also happy at the same time knowing that he'll be more taken care of with his new family.


Sleepy Misty, about one month.
Misty, on the other hand is a half dachshund, half greyhound sweetheart. Though I didn't request for any in return when I gave Eros, Ian promised me Misty as a special gift. I was hesitant at first but since I love dogs, I thankfully accepted the idea. She already turned three months almost a month ago, and I was supposed to get her already last week but the inevitable happened---she, together with her sister, Nita and Eros got sick.
Nita, Misty's only litter sibling died first, out of  what they thought as a mere diarrhea. On the night of Nita's death, Misty started to vomit and excreted bloody diarrhea late that night..she was confined at the vet the following morning. Eros exhibited the same signs two days after, and he followed Misty at the community vet.

Observations were done and the result took us by surprise. The culprit was Parvovirus, a potentially lethal virus that causes infection in dogs and puppies that indeed causes bloody diarrhea and vomiting. The said virus is asymptomatic (meaning no visible symptoms can be observed) until it is fully blown in the system. Among other organ defects, it causes extreme damage to the intestinal tract, explaining the bloody diarrhea. For more complete info, visit link: http://vetmedicine.about.com/cs/dognz/a/parvodog.htm . To how the virus reached my boyfriend's residence is unknown but what is known is that Parvo is epidemic at their baranggay.

The two dogs were left in the care of their trusted veterinarians and since the diagnosis, we could only hope for the best. Learning how serious the condition is, Ian repeatedly told me to pray for their recovery and I did ( I'd do it anyway even if he didn't tell me to). Those two dogs were special, they are our babies and we hoped and prayed hard until this day. This day when our prayers have been answered differently.

Eros drew his last breath between 9:42-10:20 in the morning. Ian called me just before my second class start and at his first word, I already knew what he's about to say due to the urgency and agony in the tone of his voice. I left the room for awhile and started to cry. Bebe seemed to be well this morning, he even had the strength to stand and wag his tail when he saw Ian. Ian was about to carry him when all of a sudden he cried from pain and his muscles contracted. Eros died a painful death, from a seizure attack- aside from Parvo, he also had another virus in his system, known as distemper. http://vetmedicine.about.com/od/dogdiseasesconditions/a/CW-Distemper.htm

Misty followed him some time later in the afternoon, between 5:30-6:30pm. She was a tough soul, being  younger and fragile than Eros but has managed to survive hours longer. I could imagine how hard she fought there as she was in the incubator, seeing how Eros died and how Ian cried, she must have tried hard to live to not suffer the same fate. Unfortunately, the virus was stronger than the antibiotics and other medications; the virus was stronger than her will. This news is so disheartening, two deaths in a day is just too much. Guilt also overtook me for technically, Misty is already mine. I was supposed to take care of her but I wasn't even able to hold her 'til her last moment. The chance of doing so is forever lost.

Ian was and is still inconsolable. The pain that he's feeling pains me as well..it's like a deja vu for me, I lost two dogs in a day too; [Pretty, my irreplaceable anak and her baby.. It was so painful, I didn't had the heart to blog its details up to this day.] I knew that words are not enough but I just told him what I told myself when the same experience happened to me: that wherever the passed dogs are, they are happy together with our other deceased pets and that at least there, they are not suffering anymore. Though they will no longer be visible or physically seen, they'll forever stay with him, in his heart..and they will look after him. 

After this dire incident, I can only think of these two important conclusions:
NEVER OVERLOOK THE IMPORTANCE OF VACCINE and DO NOT DELAY.
Nita, Misty and Eros were just 4-6 months old puppies and they were still unimmunized. I am not and will not blame Ian's family though, had they known about this earlier, I am sure they will take the proper measures immediately. They also did more than enough when they realized that the dogs were sick. Viruses are nonetheless opportunistic and it just so happen that it had affected and taken our dearest's lives. 

Both of our babies died this day and it will never be forgotten.

Friday, August 5, 2011

photo rama 01: KFC Tower Burger










I therefore conclude:  Parehong nakakaumay but double down is way, way better than tower burger. Will not eat KFC burgers muna.;p